The Voice of Another and Wise Attention: The Power of Relational Practice

The Buddha taught the dharma through speaking in relation to a particular person or group in a particular context and location. In the suttas, he emphasizes that wise view is cultivated through listening to the voice of another with wise and focused attention (yoniso manasikāra). In this program, we will practice contemplative speaking and listening together as we investigate and engage the Four Noble Truths of suffering and the possibility of release in our human lives. In particular, we will explore the potential for relationships to create the causes and conditions for suffering, with a focus on the complexity of attachment, craving, aversion, and our struggles with the truth of impermanence–including illness, aging, and death–in our lives and relationships. Together, we will contemplate the teachings on the centrality and spiritual power of dharma friendship on the Path. Through individual silent practice, Insight Dialogue, and Dharma Contemplation we will investigate and illuminate the conditions and relational practices that incline our hearts and our relationships toward joy, wisdom (insight), and love (compassion).

Noble Silence:

Noble silence will be observed during much of this program. Some contemplative exercises may involve mindful speaking and listening. Noble silence is to be upheld at all other times.

Experience Level:

Suitable for beginning and experienced practitioners.

Prerequisites:

At least one prior Buddhist meditation retreat.

Cancellation Policy:

This policy applies to all residential programs. If you need to cancel your registration, please contact us as soon as possible. Prior to six weeks before the program start date, the cancellation fee is $50. 50% of your deposit is forfeited if you cancel between two and six weeks of the program start date. 100% of your deposit is forfeited if you cancel less than two weeks before the program start date.